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Women's Pelvic Health

Pelvic Pain and Painful Sex Treatment in Bakersfield

Pain during sex, pelvic pain or tailbone pain is common and rarely talked about. Often the pelvic floor muscles are part of the problem, and gentle, one-on-one physical therapy can help.

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Yes, physical therapy can help pelvic pain and painful sex. Much of this pain involves pelvic floor muscles that are tight, tender or unable to relax. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists recommends pelvic floor physical therapy for chronic pelvic pain linked to pelvic floor muscle problems, and the American Urological Association’s bladder pain guideline recommends it as well. At ARI Physical Therapy in Bakersfield, treatment is gentle, one-on-one and always at your pace.

Does this sound like you?

✓Pain during or after sex, or pain with tampons or pelvic exams
✓Aching, burning or pressure in the pelvis, vagina or vulva
✓Tailbone pain, especially when sitting
✓Bladder pain, or a constant urge that isn’t an infection
✓Pain that started after childbirth, a C-section or surgery
✓Pain that has lasted months, and tests haven’t found a clear cause

Why it happens

Pelvic floor muscles can become tense and tender, much like a knot in your shoulders, after childbirth, surgery, an injury or fall, a long stretch of pain or infections, or ongoing stress. When they can’t relax, sex, sitting, using the bathroom or a pelvic exam can hurt, and the pain can feed more tension.

Pelvic pain often has more than one cause, and conditions such as endometriosis need medical care. Pelvic floor therapy works alongside your doctor’s treatment by addressing the muscle side of the pain.

What treatment at ARI looks like

1
A one-on-one evaluation

Your first visit takes about 45 to 60 minutes. We talk about your symptoms, history and goals, then assess your posture, hips, breathing and pelvic floor. Your therapist explains every step first, and you can say no to any part of it.

2
Helping the muscles relax

Gentle hands-on treatment, breathing and relaxation training, and exercises that teach the pelvic floor to let go, not just squeeze.

3
Getting back to normal life

Step-by-step strategies for comfortable sex, sitting and bathroom habits, education about pain, and a home program you can do on your own.

No referral needed to start. In California, you can see a physical therapist directly for up to 12 visits or 45 days, whichever comes first. Some insurance plans still require a referral for coverage; call us at (661) 282-8584 and we'll help you check.

When to see a doctor first

Go to an emergency room for sudden, severe pelvic or abdominal pain, especially if you could be pregnant or feel faint.

See a doctor promptly if pelvic pain comes with:

  • Fever, unusual discharge or a strong odor
  • Bleeding after sex, between periods, or after menopause
  • Pain during pregnancy
  • A new lump or swelling

Why women choose ARI

Pelvic floor care at ARI is for women, and it is always one-on-one at our Bakersfield clinic: 8200 Stockdale Hwy, Suite B2, in the Town & Country Village center next to Trader Joe's. Our clinic director, Deepa Konnur, PT, MPT, OCS, has postgraduate pelvic rehabilitation training from the Herman & Wallace Pelvic Rehabilitation Institute. We accept most private insurance plans and Medicare, and we have staff who speak Spanish and Hindi.

Pelvic pain FAQs

It's common, but it isn't something you have to live with. Pain during sex often involves pelvic floor muscles that are tight or tender, and pelvic floor physical therapy can help.
Your therapist explains everything first and goes at your pace. You decide what you're comfortable with, and you can stop or skip any part of the assessment.
Yes. Tailbone pain often involves the muscles and joints around the tailbone and pelvic floor, and physical therapy can ease it and make sitting more comfortable.
No. In California you can see a physical therapist directly for up to 12 visits or 45 days, whichever comes first. Some insurance plans still require a referral for coverage, so call us at (661) 282-8584 and we'll help you check.
It can help with the muscle tension and pain that often come with endometriosis, alongside the medical care your doctor provides.

Common questions

Ready to feel better?

Talk to a licensed physical therapist at ARI, one-on-one. Request an evaluation and we'll get back to you, usually within one business day.

Sources

  1. Chronic Pelvic Pain. American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.
  2. When Sex Is Painful. American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.
  3. Pelvic Pain. MedlinePlus, National Library of Medicine.

This page is general information, not a diagnosis. If you have symptoms, a licensed clinician should evaluate you.

Clinically reviewed by Deepa Konnur, PT, MPT, OCS, board-certified Orthopedic Certified Specialist · Reviewed September 2026